Multiple Research Based Studies on Sexual Satisfaction have been performed over the past 70 years to reveal the Secrets to the Best Sex!
Periodicals and Sex Talk shows talk about techniques, How to Please your Spouse, Swinging to add Spice to your Relationship, Watching Pornography to stimulate your spouse, Threesomes but Jim West’s counseling practice sees hundreds of couples a year whose marriages are in trouble.
- Couples report higher incidences of affairs
- Feelings of betrayal or emptiness
- Hurtful self-image from pornography
- More feelings of insecurity because they can not enjoy sex together exclusively
- Higher incidences of divorce
- Sexual Addictions
- Emotional Intimacy or Connectedness
Healthy relationships and knowing how to meet each others emotional needs and love language is one of the keys to Having the Best Sex!
United States Highest Teen Pregnancy in the World
On the show 16 and Pregnant show the consequences of “Hooking Up” and during the 16 and Pregnant show the commercials promote Jersey Shores which promotes “Hooking Up!” Even with the access to condoms, sex education, and birth control why is the United States #1 for Teen Pregnancy?
Promoted on MTV’s website siting confusing information stating, “condoms prevent all Sexually Transmitted Diseases.” MTV’s website also sites that 1 out of 2 sexually active teen and college students have a sexually transmitted disease. MTV’s information is confusing because other organizations report that condoms only stop half of the sexually transmitted diseases. These sites also indicate it reduces the risk of sexually transmitted diseases.
However, the Medical Institute for Sexual Health’s board chairman, Dr. Tom Fitch, said some STDs are much more easily spread than others such as herpes and human papilloma virus, or HPV, can be transmitted by contact with skin not covered by a condom (FDA, Center for Disease Control reports the same).
MTV Teen Choice awards: Gossip Girl, 90210, Desperate Housewives and other’s show relationships or casual sex relationships. MTV viewers watching the consequences of casual sex with the “16 and Pregnant,” will see commercials for shows like “The Hills and “Jersey Shores.”
Top Counseling Referral for Female Students: Below learn about how at college campuses all across America one of the top reasons female students go to counseling is because of “the after effects of hooking up.”
Romance: So many teens and college students are looking for Real Relationships, Romance, Dating!
The Hook Up Mentality Video will help show research on the effects of Hooking Up and Healthy Sexuality.
Research from Dartmouth University, Oxford, University of Chicago, and other well respected research institutions reveal 6 Characteristics of Couples Reporting the most Sexual Satisfaction!
Why bother asking someone to dinner or to the movies when you can meet at a party, down a few drinks and go “hook up” for the night?
In my freshman year of college, I can remember going down the hall to the shared bathroom among the dorm rooms and seeing some of the girls hung-over around the sinks. I caught my roommate’s eye and asked her what happened last night with that guy she had met at the party? She said, “We had fun together with no strings attached if you know what I mean. It was great!” Since those days, very little has changed in the female world of sexual freedom, it has only evolved into what we now call “hooking up.”
“Hooking up” can include all of the bases, and the ambiguity is intentional. Modest types can imply that less happened than did, and braggarts can hint at hitting a home run. Hookups can be defined by alcohol, physical attraction and a lack of expectations in the morning.
One of the legacies from the sexual revolution is the “hook-up mentality”. The assumption behind that mentality is that sex is just another recreational activity.
There are many reasons why hooking up has become the name of the game and old-fashioned dating virtually does not exist anymore. A big reason involves the changing social roles of women and the evolution of female sexual freedom.
These concepts can be baffling to parents and members of older generations who are used to a courtship culture, not a hookup culture. However, it can also be confusing for those active in hooking up. Hooking up often leaves participants confused about the status of their hook up relationships, leaving them in relationship limbo.
Article written by Relationship Expert, Janie Lacy, MS, LMHC, NCC
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