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Jim West – Anti-Bullying School Assembly

Bullying Program without talking much about Bullying???

 

Use the 3 Steps to Resolve Conflict to Deal with Bullies!

Use Positive Socialization & Repair Relationships by allowing Bullies to “Make It Up” to the one they hurt in place of detention or suspension.
Reduced Bullying by 50% in your Home or School within 2 weeks.
* Learn how to teach Students how to Roll with Teasing or Name Calling: “Your an idiot” Response: “That’s the Best thing I heard all day.”
* Retain Families with this program. Schools have reported an increase in Retention of families of Victims and been able to Rehabilitate some of the Bullies.
* Reduce Tardies and Discipline Problems by 30% in the first week by having students greet all their classmates by the end of each week: “Good morning Sasha!
* Positive Socialization – Start your day at your school with the students greeting 4-5 different students day in their home room class. “It’s good to see you! I love your blouse.” “Good Morning.” Handshake, Smile, etc.
* Apologize – Incorporate positive conflict resolution plan listed above: “I apologize for hitting you, I was wrong and will try not to do it again, will you forgive me?
* Make It Up – Let me carry your back pack for the day to rebuild trust.”

3 Easy Steps to Repair Peer or Sibling Relationships & Reduce School Bullying by Teaching Positive Socialization.

* Positive socialization is the type of social learning that is based on pleasurable and exciting experiences.
* Peer pressure is not always a bad thing. For example, positive peer pressure can be used to pressure bullies into acting better toward other kids. Positive Peer Pressure is Peer Support.
* This program teaches youth workers how they can utilize peer support in promoting positive youth development.

This program, now used in Elementary/Secondary Schools, & Youth Groups, across Florida is reducing discipline problems by up to 50 percent, eliminating the need for after school detention programs, and is giving students the emotional security to participate more fully in the learning process.

*Instant Results: Faculty at each school that participates in this consult is amazed at the quick turn around in the classroom.
*Assimilation of new students: Students report “everyone in the class is talking to everyone” by simply teaching students how to greet each other and requiring them to greet each class member by the end of each week.
*Inclusion: Fifth grade girls recently noted “the boys are letting us play football with them.”

Jim West Media Interviews

Media Interviews Total Life Counseling President and Bullying Expert Jim West, MA, LMHC

Fox News Interviews Teen Bullying Expert Jim West on Lamar Hawkins Suicide at Greenwood Lakes Middle School
CBS Interviews TLC Bullying Expert, Jim West on Dr Phillips Hazing Incident
NBC interviews StressLess Series Author Jim West on Lamar Hawkins Suicide "Shaq" at Greenwood Lakes Middle School – Jim West
StressLess Series Author on the Bully Movie! – Jim West
StressLess Series Author Gives Tips to Respond to Teasing! – Jim West
School Assembly - Funny Tips to Respond to Teasing StressLess with Flying under the Bully Radar Excerpt – Jim West
StressLess with Bullying | Parents & Students Tips

Why do Students Bully?

  1. Chaotic, out of control, home environment
  2. Abuse
  3. Low Self-Confidence
  4. Poor, inconsistent boundaries at home
  5. Depressed
  6. Angry
  7. No sense of control in their life

Who shows up on the Bullies Radar?

  1. Poor Self Concept
  2. Poor Eye Contact
  3. Reactive with Teasing
  4. Weak or Frail Appearance
  5. Depressed
  6. Hyperactive
  7. Different
  8. Developmental Students
  9. Poor Social Skills
  10. Poor Boundaries
  11. Difficulty Fitting In
  12. Loners

Steps to Quickly Resolve Conflict and Repair Broken Trust from the Bully to the Victim

Seung-Hui Cho, Virginia Tech Student, was bullied by fellow high school students who mocked his shyness and the strange way he talked, according to classmates. He probably heard “Sorry! Sorry! Sorry!” over and over again. “Sorry” a word forced under pressure in schools across the country. “Sorry” is what students like Cho receive over and over again, and then the perpetrator receives a time out, detention, work detail, suspension or expulsion. “Lociento” is the Spanish word for Sorry and means “I feel for you.” Picture someone forced in anger to say “Sorry!” but instead insert the phrase “I feel for you!!!” Sounds ludicrous. Now imagine someone punching a student in the nose and then shortly thereafter saying “I feel for you!” After this insincere, forced apology, the perpetrator then becomes resentful toward the victim and attempts to be more covert in hurting or provoking the victim the next time. Additionally, these punishments isolate or further creates a divide between the perpetrator from the victim rather than repair the relationship.
Sick of “Sorry!” “Sorry, Sorry, Sorry! Sound familiar. Ask a 2nd grader what does “Sorry” mean and they will say “That I will never do it again!” However, we all know they are just sorry because they were caught and the victim knows it’s going to come their way again.

Sorry means “I feel for you,” for example at a funeral you might say, “I am sorry for your loss,” because you “feel” for their loss. If you bump into someone and they drop their books you would say, “I am sorry . . . may I help you pick up your books!” Unfortunately, “sorry” is used more for “I feel bad I was caught!”

An Apology should sound something like the following:
– “I apologize for calling you a bad name.”
– I was wrong and will try never to do it again.”
– “Will you Forgive me?”
– Victim: “I was hurt or frustrated, but I forgive you” – Important for the Victim to name the feeling.

What is the Benefits of Forgiving? Research says a forgiving victim lives 8 years longer than one who holds on to forgiveness!

How Can I Make It Up to You? Apologies are empty and still leave the victim feeling they can not trust the person as much as they did before the person hurt them. Download ways to quickly “Make it Up” to the person so they will trust you more than before they were hurt.

– If I did something mean I can do something nice for the victim.
– If I said something mean I can say 4 nice character or compliment their personality or talents.
– Rolling with Conflict with Jim West from Total Life Counseling Center
– Bullying Program
– Reduced Bullying by 50% in your Home or School within 2 weeks.
Learn how to teach Students how to Roll with Teasing or Name Calling: “Your an idiot” Response: “That’s the Best thing I heard all day.”
– Retain Families with this program. Schools have reported an increase in Retention of families of Victims and been able to Rehabilitate some of the Bullies.
– Reduce Tardies and Discipline Problems by 30% in the first week by having students greet all their classmates by the end of each week: “Good morning Sasha! It’s good to see you! I love your blouse.”
– Incorporate positive conflict resolution plan listed above: “I apologize for hitting you, I was wrong and will try not to do it again, will you forgive me? Let me carry your back pack for the day to rebuild trust.”

What others have said about Jim’s fun approach to Anti-Bullying

“I was suicidal last week and this week I had a great week using the your ‘Roll with It’ Tips!” Middle Schooler

“You Suck John! You’re parents paid off the coach so you could be on the JV Basketball Team! That’s the only way you could make the team,” as John retells the story of how his teammates bullied him and tried to get him to quit the team! John had been going to school with his head down to avoid eye contact with is aggressors until one day he took Jim West’s advice, author of the StressLess with Bullying for Students and Parents!

John received more of the same messages on his Facebook and used the StressLess advice and responded with “Yeah I do suck at basketball and I wish I could shoot a 3 point shot like you David! Do you think you could help me with my shot at practice tomorrow?”

There was a 5 minutes pause. Can you imagine what David’s reaction was when he first read John’s response? John then replies “Ok . . . See you at practice!”

John recalls the next day he went to school with his head down and David saw him and said “Hey John . . See you at practice!” John was so relieved and held his head hi as his confidence was up and he knew now how to roll with the teasing.

John

FOR SCHOOLS | Use the StressLess with Bullying in the School Program – Combat Bullying by Building Positive Peer Pressure or

FOR PARENTS AND STUDENTS | Watch Streaming Video Program Now or Set up a coaching session for your child or teen to learn How to Fly under the Bully Radar.

This seminar is available in a DVD, Workbook, and Power Point Presentation to be used in the schools to teach students positive socialization.

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Anti Bullying Program for students and parents

StressLess with Anti-Bullying | Parent and Student Tips to Fly under the Bullies Radar

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Topics for StressLess with Bullying | Parent and Student Tips to Fly under the Bullies Radar

  1. Signs that your child may be a Victim of Bullying
  2. What is Indirect Aggression? – Similar to the Mean Girls Movie
  3. What Parenting Style contributes to making your child a target for bullies?
  4. Developing a Healthy Self-Esteem Now or in the Early Years!
  5. Building Social Skills to have a Posse! Learn to make friends so you are not alone!
  6. Making Peers Feel Like a Million Bucks!
  7. How to Roll with Teasing? Ignoring doesn’t always work and walking away still gives the bully what they want. So it’s important to respond without insulting them back and without letting them see they are getting to you! Example:
    1. Bully: “You’re a faggot and I had fun with your mom last night!”
    2. Victim (said without sarcasm): “That’s the Best thing I’ve heard all day! You always bring out the best in me.”
  8. What Parenting Style may cause Bullying Behaviors?
  9. What if I have heard my child/teen is bullying others?
  10. Sorry doesn’t cut it! | School Program to Resolve Conflict with Bullying and Victims where the Victim carries the Victims Backpack for the Day in place of suspension! Sorry doesn’t cut it so learn about a program that is getting traction in several public and private schools.
  11. Three Easy Steps to Quickly Resolve Conflict and Repair Broken Trust in Your:
    1. Home
    2. Classroom or School
    3. Youth Group
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Anti Bullying Program for students and parents

StressLess with Anti-Bullying | Bullying in Schools

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Tips for StressLess with Bullying | Bullying in School

Key Benefits

  • School Improvement Program
  • Character Building
  • Refreshing approach to discipline by requiring students to “make it up” to the person they hurt rather than isolate the student.

BULLYING PROGRAM: This program is also used by schools to reduce Bullying by teaching students positive socialization, giving them an opportunity each day to practice positive socialization, greeting their classmates by the end of the week each week, learning how to resolve conflict with the APC Plan and how to repair past hurts. Students are also more inclusive, more on time to school as they are eager to have a 4-5 students each day greet, compliment and affirm them each day.

The seminar is available online or call us at 407-248-0030 to order the DVD or set up a phone consultation. Cut your discipline problems in half by teaching positive socialization and a simple conflict resolution plan. Implementing this simple 3 step conflict resolution plan actually

DETENTION ELIMINATION: Some schools have incorporated this process in their discipline program and have seen a 50% drop in discipline problems and have eliminated their after school detention program.

The recently updated Power Point File on the DVD is also available to train teachers in your school, students and/or parents. The handouts for the students and parents are also available.

 

Additionally, James L West, MA, LMHC, NCC is available to implement this consultation at your school or youth group.

There is a 30 Day Money Back Guarantee! We are sure you will be satisfied and you can keep the workbook and video even after getting a full refund!
Anti-School Bullying program that rebuilds trust with the Bully to the Victim

Jim West, MA, LMHC, NCC

is an author, international communicator, coach, nationally certified and licensed counselor and specializes in Oppositional Defiance & Attention Deficit Disorder.

Additionally, Jim West is available to implement this Consultation and others at your school or youth group.

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Call Jim for a Phone Consultation to inquire how this program would reduce bullying in your school! – (407) 248-0030