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Orlando Area Seminars by James L West, MA, LMHC, NCC

Building Trust/Positive Peer Pressure in the Classroom-Available for purchase on

School Improvement, Character Building, School Retention, Inclusion program in 3 simple steps! 

*          Cut discipline problems in half, while building character, repairing past hurts, improving your school, increasing inclusion, deepening relationships, rehabilitate some of the scorners and scoffers . . . Read More.

Testimonials-“We are having a great year with our 5th & 6th graders... I have observed several instances when teachers have helped students settle issues using the techniques learned through your workshops.  The retreat at the beginning of the year was a great beginning and the whole year seems to be continuing along very well.”-Mary Anne-Assoc. Dir.-LH Preparatory School

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Blogs:  "Positive Conflict Resolution for Families" by James L West, MA, LMHC, NCC

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ADHD in the Classroom-Available for purchase on

  • Stanford did a study that showed the learning style of the average person as follows: 89% Visual, 10% Auditory & 1% the remaining 3 senses.  As we reflect on the teaching style in our schools we realize that the average student will struggle because the primary learning style is Auditory and then we expect an ADHD child that is primarily Visual and Tactile in their learning style to assimilate and learn.  ADHD students are entrepreneurial, inventors like Thomas Edison, visionaries, creators, scientists like Albert Einstein, professional athletes like Terry Bradshaw, CEO's, entertainers, and more because they are full of passion.  If we can help them through school and let them loose in their area of passion they will far exceed their peers.  The objective of this seminar is to give you the tools to empathize, provide structure, organization and positive reinforcement to set the stage for a bright and amazing future.
    1. Define ADHD and symptoms

    2. Behavioral approaches and accommodations for ADHD in the school

    3. Treatment and Alternative Treatment options

    Jim West, MA, LMHC, NCC is a nationally certified and state licensed counselor and specializes in ADHD and Oppositional Defiance.  His positive approach to ADHD is refreshing and helps parents, and teachers get in the head of their students and truly empathize with their attentionion issues.

  • TESTIMONIALS:  “Interactive presentations made it interesting, engaging, and fun.”  Miriam H . . . Read More
  • Consultation is available at your school for teachers and parents or you may purchase the DVD
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Blogs:   "ADHD is a Good Thing?" by James L West, MA, LMHC, NCC

Food for Thought - What we eat effects how we think, energy levels, focus, mood regulation and more.  Food for Thought deals with dietary considerations which can improve ADHD, Oppositional Defiance Disorder (ODD), Bipolar Disorder, Depression & Anxiety symptoms.

Abstinence-Middle School or High School Retreat

  • The past 60 years several research studies from Dartmouth, University of Chicago, and more have concluded those who marry without sexual experience and refrain from cohabitation have the healthiest intimate relationships. 
  • God created sex for procreation and for our enjoyment and he wants so much for us to have the best relationships.  We think God tells us to be abstinent because he does not want us to have fun when all along he knows abstinence is the recipe for the best relationships and secular research backs it up!!!
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Combating Bullying on your campus

School Improvement, Character Building, School Retention, Inclusion program in 3 simple steps! 

*          Cut discipline problems in half, while building character, repairing past hurts, improving your school, increasing inclusion, deepening relationships . . . Read More.

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The No No's of Oppositional Defiance-Dealing with the Oppositional Children in the Classroom

95% of students respond to our innate leadership, discipline structures and teaching abilities but Oppositional students are in the other 5%.  This positive approach will help us with the following:

  • Learn the history of Adolescence and how it relates to the Oppositional Child
  • Understand how an oppositional child thinks
  • How to respond less with directives and more with choices  (both choices with the same desired outcome or directive).
  • Participants will learn practical ways to respond with questions that lead the student to the solution
  • How to work with Oppositional Parents

Testimonial-"Your information is valuable for any parent, grandparent, teacher, counselor, etc.  I feel as if I have found a gold mine of information.  I am a long time high school teacher working on a high school counseling credential in order to work in a different capacity at the school site."
P.S.  "I thoroughly enjoyed your explanation of the emergence of "the adolescent" in history."  Diana-Newport Beach, Calif.

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Diffusing Parents in the Private School

  • Learn 3 easy positive steps to diffusing parents using Validation and Empathy to help them feel you understand how they feel.  In most cases this will help the parent to diffuse.
  • Then use Choices and explanations can be offered to resolve the situation. 


Seminars in the Orlando Area by Evelyn Wenzel, LCSW, CAP

Teachers and the Anxious Student

  • Do you have that student who can’t quite cope with taking a test, reading out loud, or working in groups? Do they seem to stay at home more frequently than other children because of stomach ache or headache? Do these students live in the office? When do accommodations made for these students begin to become more detrimental and need to be referred for counseling? Because these students do not have behavioral issues that create difficulties in classroom management per se, many of them fall through the cracks and never are identified. This seminar will look at the anxious student in the classroom and help teachers determine when this child may need to be referred for more help. 

Test Anxiety- Is It Just Test Jitters?

  • This 4 week (90 minutes each) workshop will help your test anxious students learn to concentrate and relax for effective test-taking. Many high school students with test anxiety walk into and out of the classroom knowing the material, but forget it during the test. This workshop is particularly beneficial prior to the SAT and ACT.

Gender Identity

  • This seminar deals with the powerful influence the media and culture play in confusing Christian youth about their masculinity or femininity. The causes, how to identify at-risk youth, and what steps parents can take will be discussed.

Understanding Adolescent Self-Injurious (Self-Mutilation) Behavior

  • The number of adolescents engaging in self-mutilation is increasing at an alarming rate. This seminar will provide an overview of why adolescents self-harm, the function of self-injury and how this behavior is used as an avoidant form of communication. This information in this seminar can be tailored for parent groups, therapists, church youth group leaders, pediatricians, and guidance counselors.
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    At a Conference with multiple workshops: "this is the best seminar I attended in the past two days"

    Guidance Counselor:  "This is the most helpful seminar for my field that I have gone to in a long time"

Court-mandated abuse reporting
  • Abused children in the classroom and church.  Over 1/3 of America's children are physically or sexually abuse. This seminar helps you to know the indicators of abuse and how these symptoms may manifest themselves in the classroom or church. Knowing the legal obligation of mandated reporting and how to implement effective policies make this a must workshop for all teachers and church leaders!

Other Seminars by Evelyn:  Parenting Skills, Substance Abuse, Eating Disorders, Couples, Stress Management


Seminars by Janie Lacy, MS, IMH-6641

Battling Sexual Addictions

In a culture where sex, like alcohol, is socially acceptable and encouraged, and sexual images and provocation abound, it becomes more challenging to distinguish between normal sexuality and excessive, or abnormal, sexual behavior.  In this seminar you will better understand this sexual disorder as well as be able to answer the following questions:

·         What is sexual addiction?

·         What causes sexual addiction?

·         Differences between men and women in sex addiction?

·         How do I or my loved one heal from sex addiction?

“You Wanna Hook Up?”-The Adolescent/College Student Epidemic of Casual Sex

The cultural message we get today is that there is nothing wrong with hooking up, as long as no one is being deceived.  If you say, “I love you,” to get sex, that is not okay, but if you say, “Let’s hook up,” then that is fair play.  This seminar looks at the “hook-up mentality” and the effects it is having on our adolescents and college students.  This seminar addresses the following: 

·         “Hook Up Mentality”

·         Hook Up Effects

·         The Online World

·         Hollywood Influence and Low Self-Esteem?

Casual Sex in the Private School

The wide range of behaviors that is acceptable to our students today stands in contrast to those of earlier generations, especially in the area of sex.  This seminar will examine the generational trends that have contributed to today’s standard of widespread premarital and casual sex.  Many students have a “hook up mentality” in which they engage in casual sex with various partners and many more are likely to have a series of monogamous sexual relationships.  This seminar addresses the fact that regarding sexual behavior, there is little difference between students in the public school vs. students in the private school. 

Suicide Prevention:  QPR

As a certified QPR Instructor, Janie can teach QPR for Suicide Prevention to churches, schools, and organizations.  QPR stands for Question, Persuade and Refer, three steps anyone can learn to help prevent suicide. Just like CPR, QPR is an emergency response to someone in crisis and can save lives. QPR is the most widely taught gatekeeper training program in the United States, and more than 300,000 adults have been trained in classroom settings in more than 40 states.

As a QPR-trained Gatekeeper you will learn to:

  • Recognize the Warning Signs of Suicide

  • Know How to Offer Hope

  • Know How to Get Help and Save A Life

Learn more by visiting the website:  http://www.qprinstitute.com/

LEADERSHIP COACHING INFORMATION

 

Tools for Building Personal Leadership Skills

Do you have the skills to become an effective leader?  Do you know how to discover and develop your strengths, define and promote your vision, and create a life in harmony with both achievement and satisfaction? In this workshop, you will synthesize concepts and strategies from psychological, physiological, sociological, and entrepreneurial traditions to construct your personal building blocks for leadership.

Habits for Effective Leadership

This workshop is designed based on concepts from Stephen Covey’s THE 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE.  You will explore some habits of highly effective people that you can begin today or use to renew your leadership career.  Goal setting is the basis for leadership growth, but realistically our goals need to be specifically focused for success.  Learn how to set appropriate goals and to start to accomplish them.  Taking care of business may be your career, but you must take care of yourself first and always.  Learn how to renew yourself as you become the leader of your own future.

Building on the Seven Habits:  A Practical Guide to Action

This seminar introduces the concepts within Stephen Covey’s book, The 8th Habit, to assist you to begin the process of creating your own action plan based on your personal goals. This seminar examines the whole person (body, mind, heart, and spirit) with four basic needs (to live, to learn, to love, to leave a legacy) and four intelligences (physical, mental, emotional and spiritual) and their highest manifestation (discipline, vision, passion, conscience).  All of which represent the four dimensions of voice (need, talent, passion, & conscience).

Racial Identification in Multi-Racial Adolescents

Identity formation among multiracial adolescents is becoming a highly important area of recent research due to a response to a growing number of children born to couples of interracial marriage. As multiracial adolescents integrate into American society, balancing their unique identity with mainstream American culture becomes an important task in identity development.  This very informative seminar addresses the following:

·         What factors motivate a multiracial adolescent in defining their self definition?

·         How can multiracial adolescents meet the challenges of their uniqueness in their identity development?

·         Do multiracial adolescents as a group face more difficulty in adolescence than members of other mono-racial minority groups?


Seminars by Sandi Burchfield, MS, IMH-1129

Reporting Abuse:  When should I call?  What symptoms or behaviors should I look for?

Teachers, social workers, and health care workers are all mandated reporters of child abuse.  Make a call, remain anonymous, and the abuse and neglect stops.  If only it were that simple.  Most mandated reporters are familiar with the signs and risks of physical and sexual abuse.  But, do you realize that over 60% of substantiated cases of child abuse are neglect?  This includes educational, emotional, physical, and medical neglect.  What’s more worrisome is that emotional abuse can be the most destructive, often has the deepest mental health damage, is the most prevalent, but yet, it is the most difficult to prove. 

  • Before you leave this seminar, you will understand:

  • How to recognize the subtle signs and forms of child abuse and neglect.

  • Abuse and neglect reaches across all family types:  wealthy, poor, white, black

  • The best way to approach the parents and/or family in a non-threatening manner.

  • When a report is necessary, how to involve the family in their own healing.

But He Comes From Such a Good Family

Just as a picture says a thousand words, so does a child’s actions.  Though the divorce rate is declining, families are becoming more and more detached from each other.  In today’s society, it has become almost a necessity for both parents to work full-time outside the family.  As a result, children are growing up seeing their adult caregivers for less than 2 hours per day, with only 30 minutes or less of that being “quality time”.  Families have forgotten how to play together, learn together, and this responsibility has been handed over to teachers and church staff.  This seminar will train a parent, teacher, or caregiver how to:

  • Recognize when difficult children are not just being difficult.

  • Bring the parents and children/teens together as a team in working on rebellious behavior.

  • Readjust priorities within the family unit.

  • Build lasting memories to share for a lifetime

  • Handle a rebellious child in the classroom when the parents remain passive.

I Just Wanted a Normal Family, Not a Special Child

Most couples dream of having children to throw ball with, share vacations together, or be able to pass a legacy on to.  What happens when they are hit with terms like cerebral palsy, autism, or Down syndrome?  Often times, the marriage is put on hold to tend to the child’s medical appointments, therapy treatments, and school staffings.  If you’d like to learn how to support a couple and encourage them to make their marriage a priority, this seminar is for you.  The following topics will be discussed:

  • The special needs of children with developmental disabilities

  • The stressors that come with having a special needs child

  • How to keep a marriage fresh and alive

  • Understand how a special needs child can live beyond his/her potential when the parents love, support, and live for each other.


Seminars In the Orlando Area by Dr. David Hatmaker, LMHC, NCC

Understanding How to Effectively Communicate

  • Discover the different levels of communication.  We will also look at ways to help couples learn how to communicate using full emotional and interpersonal communication.  The art of listening is also discussed, along with practicing active listening.  Guidelines for effective communication as well as roadblocks are addressed.

Resolving Conflict without Damaging Intimacy

  • In this seminar we will help you understand how to resolve conflict in healthy ways using some healthy guidelines.  We will teach you how to avoid loosing your temper and how to resolve heated issues using “who has the floor” method

Dealing with Stress and Burnout

  • In this seminar we will look at the physiology of stress and how it affects our bodies.  We will address why we get to the point of burnout and some steps to take to prevent it from happening to us.  We will also look at some things we can do if we need to recover from burnout.  We will learn how you can adopt a stress-coping life-style if balance.

Love & Logical-Parenting Seminar

  • We will look at the concept of parenting using love and logic, and how you can gain control through choices .  You will be given help in understanding your child and their particular bents and personality traits to be used as part of your parenting. You will also gain an understanding of the key to your child’s heart.

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